As each day passes, we grow to understand ourselves better and know what is right and wrong for us.Sometimes it's funny how intricate life is. It is through other people's reflection that you recognize how you're changed. How you've grown. It is always reassuring when you know what's best for you. Big old canvas may not be filled to the brim, but at least it's not blank anymore.
Do you realize that everybody puts on different facades in different situation/environment? Our own characteristic changes slightly to adapt to the environment, though the core is still very much you, we pretty much blend ourselves in. Funny i've only realize it today. Heh... Different people, different personality...i am a true Gemini -
the sign of the Twins, is dual-natured, elusive, complex and contradictory. Adaptable and versatile, superficial and inconsistent. Extreme flightiness.
Someone asked me why 'Uptown Girls' is one of my favorite movie? Well, generally it is because it's a very charming 'feel good' movie. It is not a comedy per se, and it does'nt try to be one, rarely will you see me cracking laughing out loud, but a smile never left my face through out the whole 90 minutes. Most of all, i loved this movie because i can identify myself with the main character, Molly. I guess you can say i see myself in her?
Her character? That's me... child/women, the child-like behaviour, the optimism, her dancing on the street because she's happy... that's me. I remember saying this to someone - I guess i'm not very observant. Because it feels like suddenly everybody is expecting me to be a grow up. No one ever told me before hand ,"hey, you're an adult now, you need to grow up". Nobody taught me on that subject, i don't know what i'm suppose to do. No warning, nothing. Just BAMMM - grow up!
Purity is usually sucked out of a person before they exit their teens. Life experiences add up after a while. Every small snipes will wear a person down until they realize that they have nothing left to give. And i'm clinging on desperately to mine weary of the world hoping that it will never sucked the life out of me.
At 17 this movie is the ultimate chick flick, the dresses, the parties, the modern cinderella story. At 18 it is about exploring the world, the relationships, at 20 it's recognizing the innocence and learning how to face the world with it and now at 23, it is about learning how grow up, how to be an adult.
That is why i love love love this movie

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